Have you ever wondered why we often use the term “wear your heart on your sleeve”? Why is it that some clothing items scare us, and others feel right? Clothes are more than just fabric, they are fashion, and fashion is a state of being. For some, fashion is akin to gambling, as daring to be unique and fashionable can feel like placing a bet on one’s style.
Similar to the strategic moves in a poker game, mastering fashion is also about understanding the tricks and techniques that can help you make a statement. It’s like having a royal flush of poker tips for your wardrobe! Just as a skilled poker player knows when to hold ’em and when to fold ’em, a fashion-savvy individual knows when to wear their heart on their sleeve and when to go all in with their style.
Confidence is the ace up your sleeve when it comes to fashion, and with the right tips and tricks, you can elevate your wardrobe game to a whole new level. So, let’s deal out some fashion tips and turn your fashion bluff into a fashion statement that speaks volumes about who you truly are!
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The Power of Body Language
While there is no specific science to disclose the question, there’s no doubt that wearing specific clothing puts people in a good mood, AKA “dopamine dressing.”
For instance, wearing a dashing blazer with your preferred choice of pegged pants or skinny jeans certainly puts a strut in your walk and conveys an ooze of confidence and assertiveness.
However, it’s important not to let the clothes do all the work; it’s not just about what you wear, but how you wear it. When putting an outfit together, here are some ways to maximize your look: remember to stand tall and present a sharp, alert pose; to do that, place your hands at your waist and maintain eye contact. People respond to facial gestures, and a friendly smile goes a long way.
Dressing to Impress
Wearing an outfit can make quite an impression; dress to impress comes to play, especially when shopping for a specific occasion. Formal attire, evening wear, and casual chic; are all fashionable choices we have created, which is why certain outfits reflect a specific attitude.
When dressing for a job interview, there is a specific reason people tend to wear blazers or fitted jackets; they both frame the shoulders elegantly and align the body subtly, demonstrating professionalism. Blue, navy, and brown colors communicate an approachable personality and calm demeanor.
When shopping for evening wear, consider shopping for these three items:
- An evening dress: a little black dress is always flirtatious, versatile, yet sophisticated and is suitable for a night out in the town or a dinner party; when worn with a fitted jacket, it becomes perfect for a business meeting.
- A silk blouse: it can be matched perfectly with a midi skirt for an elegantly effortless look.
- Straight-cut pants or pegged pants: these trousers are timeless. With the proper top and pumps, what was once mundane will be transformed into fierce, sharp, and head-turning.
Make a Statement Every Day
An everyday look may seem simple, but the mirror on the wall knows it can be challenging to wear. Before shopping, let’s agree that an everyday look is closely related to sport chic, which exudes casualness while being stylish. To master this look, think of layers, comfort, and sportiness. So, pair a t-shirt with a midi skirt, rock those with a pair of trendy sneakers, throw on a denim jacket, and voila, sport chic is achieved.
Overcoming Fashion Fears
Sample size, yes, is the infamous enemy of fashion itself; one size does not fit all, and yes, you can pull that off. The concept of a “real” woman doesn’t exist; every woman is beautiful in her skin. While it may seem risky to venture to the other side of fashion, it can be beneficial and therapeutic.
Tips for stepping out of your fashion comfort zone and trying new styles:
Introduce a new item one step at a time
It’s important to start small, not to lose momentum; instead of creating a new style, change one item; for instance, rather than wearing a loose and oversized t-shirt, wear a better-fitted t-shirt that complements your body shape.
Adopt a new fashion theory
Following a more inclusive and wider range of models can change how we perceive fashion; for instance, plus-size models have changed how the industry regards fashion and added a new and welcomed change to the scene.
Reintroduce mirrors
It’s important to remember to pause and stare at a mirror and gaze at who we are as opposed to what we would like to be; the first step in any journey is acceptance of hardship, and although it may seem like a daunting experience in the long run, the difference will speak for itself.
Every fashion journey begins on the inside and reflects outward; it’s not what you wear but how you wear it. In the words of Ashley Graham: “Sexy’ is a state of mind, and it can come in all shapes and sizes. It is different for every person.”
